Welcome drinks
Come say hello the night before. Drinks and small plates on the deck, casual clothes. Everyone is welcome; no need to RSVP for this one.
Everything happens at Mill Pond Farm, just outside Bayside. Here’s the plan, minute by minute (roughly).
Parking field
Park in the field by the gate and follow the lanterns down to the meadow.
The meadow
A short ceremony under the old oak. Please be seated by 3:50.
The lawn
Drinks, snacks and lawn games while we take a few photos.
The barn
A family-style dinner with toasts from the people who know us best.
The barn
First dance, then the floor is yours. Requests welcome.
The lane
Help us end the night with sparklers on the lane. Shuttles leave from the gate.

A family farm with a meadow for the ceremony, a big lawn and a restored barn for dinner and dancing. Free parking in the field by the gate.
Garden formal: think suits or a jacket and slacks, summer dresses, jumpsuits. Ties optional. The ceremony is on grass, so leave the stilettos at home and bring block heels or flats. Evenings by the coast get cool, so pack a layer.
Come say hello the night before. Drinks and small plates on the deck, casual clothes. Everyone is welcome; no need to RSVP for this one.
Ceremony in the meadow, then cocktails on the lawn, dinner in the barn and dancing until late.
Pastries, coffee and one last hug before you head home. Drop in any time between 10 and noon.
The barn and restrooms are step-free, and a golf cart can drive anyone to the meadow. Tell us what you need on the RSVP form.
The ceremony moves into the barn. We’ll post an update here on the morning of the wedding.
Phones away for the vows, please. After that, share everything with #ElenaAndSam.