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The day

Saturday, June 12, 2027

Everything happens at Mill Pond Farm, just outside Bayside. Here’s the plan, minute by minute (roughly).

Saturday

The schedule

  1. Guests arrive

    Parking field

    Park in the field by the gate and follow the lanterns down to the meadow.

  2. Ceremony

    The meadow

    A short ceremony under the old oak. Please be seated by 3:50.

  3. Cocktail hour

    The lawn

    Drinks, snacks and lawn games while we take a few photos.

  4. Dinner

    The barn

    A family-style dinner with toasts from the people who know us best.

  5. Dancing

    The barn

    First dance, then the floor is yours. Requests welcome.

  6. Send-off

    The lane

    Help us end the night with sparklers on the lane. Shuttles leave from the gate.

The white barn at Mill Pond Farm under a blue sky
The place

Mill Pond Farm

Mill Pond Farm2210 Mill Pond Road, Bayside, OR

A family farm with a meadow for the ceremony, a big lawn and a restored barn for dinner and dancing. Free parking in the field by the gate.

What to wear

Garden formal

Garden formal: think suits or a jacket and slacks, summer dresses, jumpsuits. Ties optional. The ceremony is on grass, so leave the stilettos at home and bring block heels or flats. Evenings by the coast get cool, so pack a layer.

Good to know

  • Block heels, flats or boots for the grass
  • A light jacket or wrap for the evening
  • Sunglasses: the ceremony faces west
  • Any color you like, except all-white
The rest of the weekend

Before and after

Friday, June 11

Welcome drinks

7 pm to 9:30 pmThe Harbor House

Come say hello the night before. Drinks and small plates on the deck, casual clothes. Everyone is welcome; no need to RSVP for this one.

Saturday, June 12

The wedding

3:30 pm to 11 pmMill Pond Farm

Ceremony in the meadow, then cocktails on the lawn, dinner in the barn and dancing until late.

Sunday, June 13

Farewell brunch

10 am to 12 pmMill Pond Farm

Pastries, coffee and one last hug before you head home. Drop in any time between 10 and noon.

Accessibility

The barn and restrooms are step-free, and a golf cart can drive anyone to the meadow. Tell us what you need on the RSVP form.

If it rains

The ceremony moves into the barn. We’ll post an update here on the morning of the wedding.

An unplugged ceremony

Phones away for the vows, please. After that, share everything with #ElenaAndSam.

RSVP The day